When Welcome Change Still Gives You Whiplash

There’s been a lot of change surrounding me lately. Good change, for sure—but still change.

And it’s giving me a bit of whiplash.

For the past three years, I’d grown accustomed to a very hands-off style of leadership. I didn’t like it. It didn’t bring out my best work, but I adapted and made the best of it.

Then, suddenly, everything shifted. New leaders arrived with a much more hands-on approach. I welcomed it; I’d been hoping for it. And if I’m honest, it has taken some adjustment.

Having leaders show genuine interest in what I’m doing is a wonderful change. I see possibilities and opportunities everywhere.

But I’m also realizing how accustomed I’d become to the silence—and to operating without much connection. I didn’t enjoy it, but it had become familiar. Comfortable, even.

So this new attention feels good…and different.

I’ll gladly still take it. Still, a little advance warning might have helped.

Try this ONE thing

Think about one change that may be heading your way. What could you do now to prepare—mentally, emotionally, or practically—so that when it arrives, you’re ready not just to brace for it, but to embrace it?

Share the change you’re preparing for in the comments. Naming it may be the first step toward welcoming it.

Let’s Connect!

If you’re ready to talk about creating a better, more joyful life—or if you simply want to share your thoughts—leave a comment below, repost this blog, or reach out to me directly. I’d love to hear your story, answer your questions, or help you take the next step toward the life you want. Sometimes, one conversation is all it takes to spark real change. Reach out to karen.laidlaw.theONEthing@outlook.com. Until then, enjoy the blog and keep moving forward.