How To Stay In That Space Where You Know What You Know

Sometimes you just know, you know? There is an idea or a knowledge that you just know that you know.

And you share it and try to explain how you know it but you can’t. There’s no science, there’s no evidence, there’s just your knowing. And you’re confident in your knowing; until you get pushed into defending it to more and more people.

And then you start to doubt yourself and maybe even stop knowing. Maybe you even forget that you know.

And then one day that thing that you knew comes out. It’s true and others see it too. And you knew it all along. The thing to do is to know what you know, keep on believing and maybe be careful who you share it with. At all costs, do not deny your knowing

Try this ONE thing

Hold on to those things that you see or understand better than most people, or even every person. Trust that that knowing came from somewhere and in time it will prove out.

Want to experience coaching? I like to start with a deep, get-to-know-you conversation to see if we are right for each other. Sometimes we talk for one or two hours at no charge. I have no goal except to bring about transformation. Together we work on the lies, the self-deception, the fears of the power you perceive to be outside yourself. We work on your difficulties in making decisions and your inability thus far to make bold choices in life and to follow through and trust yourself completely to do so.

The irony for some people is that the very thing that they want the coaching for (an indecisive, half-hearted life) is what’s keeping them from deciding whether to get coaching.

When you’re ready, reach out @ karen.laidlaw.theONEthing@outlook.com. Meanwhile, enjoy the blog.